“Start unknown, finish unforgettable.” —Misty Copeland
We hear so much of negatives around us. It compels us to project such ideas on ourselves completely surrendering to the fear imbibed. Do we ever realize, how its going to impact us. It blocks the channels of hard work, effort, and happiness. That is sufficient to start a blame game, whether it be you or the onus is put on others.
Each one of us has a different perspective of events happening around us. One forms the opinion based on our past experiences and on the circumstances that he or she was subjected to.The notion of success or failure in any situation is based on the response that an individual exhibits during the striving moment.
The trouble starts when we inculcate the helping process from outside seeking help to pull ourselves out of the zone. Self help is the best help. You start to put effort to reach to a solution. That is the step which enables one to grow strong and move towards the desired objective.
Take the example of a very fast hundred meter runner who needs to deliver in a very short span of time. He is completely focused on self deeply exercising acceleration with the help of body movements and his breath control. The moment he diverts his focus on others, he loose his speed.
Its important to remain focused in the process when one attempts to achieve the favorable outcome. The very first step would be to close the door. Stop discussing about your goals to others.
Staying focused implies one is able to channel the thought process towards the goal. Though appears tough, specially when the process is full of stress and is boring, there are ways to make it interesting. Segregate the task in small chunks and associate it with things that interests you. A time based deadline is an essential factor to get focused.
When life gives you a Lemon, Make a Lemonade. Get in the habit of taking lemons on your own so you get plenty of Lemonades. Means Get out of your comfort zone. This out of comfort zone is full of things that scares you. You have been avoiding it but now ready to confront it. You might get hit but with the will to stand you will always strike back.
Nothing great in the world has ever been accomplished without passion.
The passion to achieve, to build a sequence of accomplishments, with each being better than previous one, guides us to come out of the comfort zone. When the trouble is chosen to enhance the quality of life, Accomplishments reflect in every action. This desire to achieve has improvised many to leave their high salaried job and showcase themselves their entrepreneurial capabilities.
The other crucial attribute one must have is discipline. In the process,you will encounter several lows and their the effort put when amalgamated with discipline will give the required push towards the goal.
There are books which lay emphasis on positive approach towards Success. A book ” The Monk who sold his Ferrari” by Robin Sharma is one such book. It lays the importance of positive state of mind in the endeavor to success.
Another book that tells you to get disciplined by adopting good creative habits. Habits assists in maintaining the consistency and flow in the movement towards the Goal. The book ” Atomic Habits” by James Clear plays a pivotal role in establishing key ingredients of Success. A major concern of us is to maintain consistency. often procrastination prevails and consequently the strong motivation weakens and gives way to quitting. In the book “Atomic habit” James talks about gateway habit. you are feeling lazy and don’t feel like exercising, wear your exercise dress, visit the exercise area. This would be enough to overcome initial hiccups.
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